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During World War II my dad served with the US Army in the South Pacific. During that time dad rejected any idea of religion, saying, "I don't need a crutch." Yet the day came when his attitude toward spiritual things would change forever. Mom had gone into labor with their third child, and my brother and I went to bed with the excitement of soon seeing our new brother or sister. When I got out of bed the next morning, I excitedly asked Dad, "Is it a boy or a girl?" He replied, "It was a little girl but she was born dead." We began to weep together at our loss.


For the first time, Dad took his broken heart to Jesus in prayer. At that moment he felt an over whelming sense of peace and comfort from God, though his daughter would always be irreplaceable. Soon he began to take an interest in the Bible and continued to pray to the One who was healing his broken heart. His faith grew through the years. He became a strong follower of Jesus-serving Him as a Bible-study teacher and a leader in his church.


Jesus is not a crutch for the weak. he is the source of new spiritual life! When we're broken,m He can make us new and whole (Psalm 119:75).

-Dennis Fisher

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