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John Calvin puts forward a very simple reason why love is the greatest gift: “Because faith and hope are our own: love is diffused among others.” In other words, faith and hope benefit the possessor, but love always benefits another. In John 13:34–35 Jesus says, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” Love always requires an “other” as an object; love cannot remain within itself, and that is part of what makes love the greatest gift.
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What do you do when you have made horrible judgments of someone

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Indeed, we are all guilty of judging others. The best thing you can do is ask God for His Spirit to be in you to give you the love for this person and to see them as Christ sees them. If not done already, confess to God your faults and receive His forgiveness. It's only Christ working in you that can change you into His likeness. "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new... God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation." 2 Cor. 5:17,19. God bless.

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Admitting you were wrong is the place to start. Apologize to the person and ask God to lead you in truth, righieosness, and self control.

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I have been in the sort of same situation. First confess to Jesus, and ask for wisdom.

 

I might go to the person and tell them what you have done, ask for forgiveness. Then its up to them. But be prepared it might take time for restoration.

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I have been in the sort of same situation. First confess to Jesus, and ask for wisdom.

 

I might go to the person and tell them what you have done, ask for forgiveness. Then its up to them. But be prepared it might take time for restoration.

 

She has no idea I made judgements against her

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She has no idea I made judgements against her

If she doesn't know you have judged her it would probably be best not to say anything to her about it. Her knowing what you did would be likely to cause problems. Just confess to God, and if you have spoken to anyone about it go to them and tell them you were wrong. Then resolve to be more careful in the future.

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